The Confession of a Tinderella and a desperate Grindrella
As the overrated weekend came to an end, my confession reckons
with Rosy Edwards – the Millennials search for THE SPECIAL ONE by lowering the standard
and finding love, one right swipe at a time.
Though it’s ok to be open to both the genders and with the
technology guiding us through the ‘SWAMVAR’ process easily, the question of
being coy is out. Moreover, sleeping diagonally in the bed when you see happy couples
around, hurts. Thus, finding a date on Tinder or a mate on Grindr seems meaningful
in a much meaningless life we lead in this rat race.
Well, honestly speaking, girls are always delightful, probably, because of the fact
that they amuse the 'not so man' side of a man and their ulterior motive to settle
down and an occasional sneak-peek into their naked anatomy, becomes a source of
curiosity for the penis bearer.
However, no Romeo and Juliet are born in real life and most,
after few courtships end up saying ‘sayonara’
to become an old chapter in each other’s memory. To undo pain, no strings attached
or one-night stands come handy. Well, blame it to Shakespeare or our poor,
overdramatic Bollywood scripts – love is never about the romance we understand and
the agony of Tinderella continues…
Having said that, the much curious man has several
opportunities and with 377 being revoked, one can seek refuge in the desperate
crowd of testosterone. Well for
beginners, the platform seems a safe haven and a few lucky ones end up tying
knot. However, not everyone can have a similar fate, delving deep into it, one
can come across the not much talked about complications of the society. Nevertheless,
the desperate Grindrellas are comfortably share ‘unsolicited pics’ for fun, enjoyment and dates and probably it’s
the only way for them to be accepted in this broken world, among people who
are equally broken and discontented. Love is never about hunting for THE ONE and
the agony of the desperate Grindrella continues….
This reminds me of the most popular Quote by Mirza Ghalib:
‘Dard jab dil mein ho, toh dawa keejiye,
Dil hi jab dard ho toh kya keejiye’
