Women have always been a figment of men’s imagination. Our
poets and authors have very well curved a niche to represent her-- beauty, talent,
and godliness and with no doubt expressed it immaculately.
This reminds me of a saying now “A piece of beauty is a joy
forever”. Does this “piece of beauty” make women more vulnerable to men? We know
women loved to be pampered, protected, and have someone to rely on till the
end; aren't these providing borderline to their own survival? They are
submitting more to the ever dominating male species to solve their problems and
to give them a sense of security.
Swami Vivekananda once said—“Who are you to solve women's
problems? Are you the God that you should rule over every widow and every
woman? Hands off! They will solve their own problems”.
I was quite impressed to what Swami ji said, he wanted women
to be more independent, to do things more themselves, it is more of the brain
power that you need rather than the muscles.
Now let me just put a question— 1) Do men take advantage of
women?
2) Do women give advantage to men?
The questions are controversial. However, we know it always
takes two to quarrel. Men out there of course take an undo advantage of women
be it by physical dominance or by sex.
My question is why women at that time like to be treated the way?
Do they really have to bear the pain?
What are they scared of?
Why they pretend to be an effing little fragile teddy bear?
People will come out with numerous answers /solution to it, yet
the domestic violence, rapes, and indifferences never seize to exist.
With the old Indian Tradition of “Pati being a Permeshwar”
and the society demoralizing women for any achievement, triggers a lot of
incompetence in behavour among women; as a result in the battle of the sexes
women could be a very fickle competitor. At times she might compete the rat
race, but at the end let the opposite sex win, perhaps the fruits she thinks is
not what she desires.
Silly isn’t?
I would conclude my blog by saying a woman who comes out to
the world should be well prepared to battle it, to save her honour and dignity because
at the end if you cannot help yourself nobody can.
NEVER GIVE UP
All The Best !!
