Friday 11 October 2013

Why Pile Up Those Insecurities?



We humans, time and again apprehend of being incomplete, and tend to seek the unending acquisition of abundant knowledge and experience; too often holding onto the prognostic action and belief.

As we wedge our way to the path of life, very often we tend to analyse our verdict. Some will generalize, some rationalize, and some will find ways to justify their intelligence; whether or not the thought holds any relevance in the present; forgetting the sequence of time.

Some perhaps might hold on to their past, regretting to what they have done, rather than getting experience, alright. Doesn't the life demand a simple cycle of being happy, happy, and happy in the three tense of time?

As a child we notice, happiness and security seemed to constitute life forever. However, as we evolve in time, the keys ingredients appear to be half the story. With the senses maturing our need for love, attention, pride, prestige, reverence, money, identity also sprouts along curving all its way to insecurity.

Insecure about love, insecure about money, insecure about position, prestige, religion all seem to shape up our life without a pinch of realization—these are merely the tricks of the illusive world we create around us.

Deep inside, the facts are known; nevertheless we tend to elude ourselves with a mere excuse of being human or humanness. Perhaps being a social animal we tend to customize our thoughts and be judgmental as we dislike being dejected.

The solution I suggest would be— the problem is not people, the problem is within us. I believe the problem is congenital as we are taught by our parents to consider all options and be realistic, making us more inclined to the negative scenarios.

But I would say— our thoughts create our reality and insecurities. It is alright to be what you are and once you realize it, the people around you will think its okay, too.

Be happy always !!


Cheers J